Blended families now make up nearly 12% of Canadian households, and merging two homes into one comes with unique challenges—from deciding where to live, to downsizing belongings, to helping kids adjust.

Choosing a Home

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer to which home to keep. Factors like space, proximity to schools, and comfort levels all matter. Sometimes, buying a new property offers a “fresh start” for everyone. Involving kids in open houses and neighbourhood visits helps them feel included. A knowledgeable realtor from The Cliff Barron Team  can guide you on which home to sell, based on market conditions and location.

Decluttering Together

Merging households means double the stuff. A professional organizer can help sort what to keep, donate, or toss. You may even need a second "decluttering round" to eliminate duplicates—keeping the better-quality item while respecting everyone’s attachments.

Including the Kids

Start early, since children (and many adults!) often want to keep everything. Grouping items (like toys) makes it easier for them to choose favourites. Encourage donating gently used items, and talk about the fun things they’ll do in the new home to build excitement.

Settling In

Once moved, focus on routines and open communication. Family meetings, shared calendars, and maintaining traditions help kids feel secure. Encourage them to share ideas so they feel valued in their new home.

Merging households can be overwhelming, but with planning, compromise, and support from professionals, it can also be a fresh start full of new memories.